Phone sex can provide a big boost to your sex life, whether or not you and your partner live in the same geographic area. Try calling your partner when he or she leasts expects to hear from you. This adds the element of surprise. Make a suggestion about some sexual adventure, kinky or otherwise, you’d like to try with them when you next see each other. Tell them specifically about a body part that turns you on or some way they perform sexually that drives you wild. Ask them what they are wearing. Recall an especially delicious sexual encounter you had in the past, going over each sweet detail. If phone calls are pre-arranged or expected, try role playing. This uses the element of imagination which is key to any satisfying sexual relationship. Don’t be shy or hold back telling your partner about a secret sexual desire involving them.